Musings on the hands of a birthkeeper | How to deal with fear about giving birth | Skills |
Dear Reader, Today I'm sharing a poem of sorts, one I wrote a few years ago. A Birthkeeper's Hands My hands are in service to you and your baby. Before I came through the door of your home and into your sacred birthing space I dedicated them to God and offered them up to be used on your behalf I have intentionally trained them and thoughtfully informed them to know which touches are therapeutic comforting needful for assisting when things feel scary or are going awry My hands are...
4 days ago • 4 min readOn birth stories (the boring and the decimating ones), helpful resources for you, birth photography, etc.
Dear Reader, Raise your hand if you are basically ALWAYS up for a good birth story! 🙋♀️ What makes a birth story "good?" Human nature is drawn to the incredible, the unlikely, the dramatic, and the suspenseful. But when it comes to birth, the stories that are simple and straightforward are equally as awesome. One mama whose birth story I shared on my blog a while back was a little shy about sharing at first because she was afraid it was boring. I think we are in need of "boring" birth...
16 days ago • 4 min readWhen it's time to get forceful or invasive! Plus, vasectomy reversal, books I'm reading, and my favorite chai
Dear Reader, Today we're in part 7&8 of a series on the Way of the Hearthmother, a Christ-centric and holistic framework to navigating resolution/healing as developed by Lauren Hall and as we teach within Hearthmother Journey. You can catch up on the other steps here. Today I'm combining the last two steps: Step 7 is Forceful Intervention Step 8 is Invasive Intervention Though these are two separate steps, they do tend to bleed into one another a little bit. As a reminder, we approach these...
about 1 month ago • 6 min readA pause to acknowledge December overwhelm, yearning, and waiting + introduce you to the O Antiphons!
Dear Reader, Happy Advent, sister. I'm taking a break from he Way of the Hearthmother series I've been writing because I'm honestly overwhelmed, behind on all the things, and feeling pretty down during these exceptionally short hours of daylight and the deep snow that's been piling up here since Thanksgiving. This is the season of waiting, longing, hoping. The season of feeling our lack, need, and desperation for a savior in a long span of silence. In our holy imaginations we enter into what...
about 2 months ago • 4 min readSo much falls into place when we live as designed. Plus, some great birth stories!
Dear Reader, Today we're in part 4 of a series on the Way of the Hearthmother, a Christ-centric and holistic framework to navigating resolution/healing as developed by Lauren Hall and as we teach within Hearthmother Journey. You can catch up on the other steps here. This week we're jumping into step 5, which is Live as Designed. Meaning, at the most fundamental level, are we living in alignment with the conditions we have been created by God to thrive within? This is stuff that can feel so...
2 months ago • 4 min readThe importance of inviting others into your birth journey, books I'm reading, groaning cake, and cord burning
Dear Reader, Today we're in part 4 of a series on the Way of the Hearthmother, a Christ-centric and holistic framework to navigating resolution/healing as developed by Lauren Hall and as we teach within Hearthmother Journey. You can catch up on the other steps here. This week we're jumping into step 4, which is to Engage the Body of Christ. People. Real, 3-dimensional humans who are part of the family of God, whom you trust to speak into your life. Hopefully you have some people like this in...
3 months ago • 5 min readCultivating curiosity, insomnia, bathroom birth, things I'm loving, and a deep dive on water birth
Dear Reader, Today we're in part 3 of a series on the Way of the Hearthmother, a Christ-centric and holistic framework to navigating resolution/healing as developed by Lauren Hall and as we teach within Hearthmother Journey. Last week we talked about the second step being to wait upon the Lord. Today I'd like to explore step 3, which is to "get curious!" As an unschooling facilitator for 6 wonderful kids, "curiosity" has become one of my focus words. I am convinced that children are born with...
3 months ago • 5 min readWaiting that isn't passive. Plus: the breast crawl, a conversation over tea, birth classes, and more.
Dear Reader, Today we're in part 2 of a series on the Way of the Hearthmother, a Christ-centric and holistic framework to navigating resolution/healing as developed by Lauren Hall and as we teach within Hearthmother Journey. Last week we talked about the first step being prayer and worship. Today I'd like to explore step 2, which is to wait upon the Lord. Pregnancy is, in many ways, an elongated waiting period, so this step is particularly relevant. Scripture abounds with language about...
3 months ago • 6 min readThe first step is always the same. Plus, Trisomy 18 miracles, wool and beeswax, and a 3rd birthday.
Dear Reader, We're going to start a min-series this week, ok? It'll have 7 or 8 parts to it. We're going to walk through the steps of the Way of the Hearthmother as it pertains to pregnancy and birth!! If you aren't familiar with this Way of the Hearthmother "thing", you may first want to listen to this podcast episode (and download the corresponding freebie you'll find there). My dear friend and partner in kingdom mischief, Lauren Hall, is the one we have to thank for this treasure of a...
4 months ago • 5 min read